feat: add TUI suspend, custom message rendering, and extension hot-reload

- ctx.SuspendTUI(callback): releases terminal for interactive subprocesses
  (vim, shell, htop), automatically restores TUI when callback returns.
  Uses BubbleTea v2 ReleaseTerminal/RestoreTerminal.

- api.RegisterMessageRenderer(config) + ctx.RenderMessage(name, content):
  named render functions for branded/styled extension output. Renderers
  receive content and terminal width, return ANSI-styled strings.

- ctx.ReloadExtensions(): hot-reloads all extensions from disk. Emits
  SessionShutdown to old extensions, reloads source, emits SessionStart
  to new. Event handlers, commands, renderers, shortcuts update immediately.
  TUI command list refreshes via WidgetUpdateEvent. Extension tools are
  NOT updated (baked into agent at creation, documented limitation).

New example extensions: interactive-shell.go, branded-output.go, dev-reload.go

examples/extensions/interactive-shell.go

@@ -0,0 +1,123 @@
+//go:build ignore
+
+// interactive-shell.go — TUI Suspend example extension for Kit.
+//
+// Demonstrates ctx.SuspendTUI() which temporarily releases the terminal
+// from the TUI so interactive subprocesses can run with full terminal
+// control. The TUI is automatically restored when the callback returns.
+//
+// Commands:
+//   /edit <file>   — opens $EDITOR (or vi) to edit a file
+//   /shell         — drops into an interactive shell session
+//   /run <cmd>     — runs a command with full terminal I/O (no TUI capture)
+
+package main
+
+import (
+	"fmt"
+	"os"
+	"os/exec"
+	"strings"
+
+	ext "kit/ext"
+)
+
+func Init(api ext.API) {
+	api.RegisterCommand(ext.CommandDef{
+		Name:        "edit",
+		Description: "Open $EDITOR to edit a file (TUI suspends)",
+		Execute: func(args string, ctx ext.Context) (string, error) {
+			file := strings.TrimSpace(args)
+			if file == "" {
+				return "", fmt.Errorf("usage: /edit <file>")
+			}
+
+			editor := os.Getenv("EDITOR")
+			if editor == "" {
+				editor = "vi"
+			}
+
+			ctx.Print(fmt.Sprintf("Opening %s in %s...", file, editor))
+
+			err := ctx.SuspendTUI(func() {
+				cmd := exec.Command(editor, file)
+				cmd.Stdin = os.Stdin
+				cmd.Stdout = os.Stdout
+				cmd.Stderr = os.Stderr
+				cmd.Run()
+			})
+			if err != nil {
+				return "", fmt.Errorf("editor session failed: %w", err)
+			}
+
+			return fmt.Sprintf("Finished editing %s", file), nil
+		},
+		Complete: func(prefix string, ctx ext.Context) []string {
+			// Suggest files in the current directory.
+			entries, err := os.ReadDir(".")
+			if err != nil {
+				return nil
+			}
+			var results []string
+			for _, e := range entries {
+				name := e.Name()
+				if strings.HasPrefix(name, prefix) {
+					results = append(results, name)
+				}
+			}
+			return results
+		},
+	})
+
+	api.RegisterCommand(ext.CommandDef{
+		Name:        "shell",
+		Description: "Drop into an interactive shell (TUI suspends)",
+		Execute: func(args string, ctx ext.Context) (string, error) {
+			shell := os.Getenv("SHELL")
+			if shell == "" {
+				shell = "/bin/sh"
+			}
+
+			ctx.Print(fmt.Sprintf("Starting %s... (type 'exit' to return to Kit)", shell))
+
+			err := ctx.SuspendTUI(func() {
+				cmd := exec.Command(shell)
+				cmd.Stdin = os.Stdin
+				cmd.Stdout = os.Stdout
+				cmd.Stderr = os.Stderr
+				cmd.Run()
+			})
+			if err != nil {
+				return "", fmt.Errorf("shell session failed: %w", err)
+			}
+
+			return "Shell session ended, TUI restored.", nil
+		},
+	})
+
+	api.RegisterCommand(ext.CommandDef{
+		Name:        "run",
+		Description: "Run a command with full terminal I/O (TUI suspends)",
+		Execute: func(args string, ctx ext.Context) (string, error) {
+			cmdStr := strings.TrimSpace(args)
+			if cmdStr == "" {
+				return "", fmt.Errorf("usage: /run <command>")
+			}
+
+			ctx.Print(fmt.Sprintf("Running: %s", cmdStr))
+
+			err := ctx.SuspendTUI(func() {
+				cmd := exec.Command("sh", "-c", cmdStr)
+				cmd.Stdin = os.Stdin
+				cmd.Stdout = os.Stdout
+				cmd.Stderr = os.Stderr
+				cmd.Run()
+			})
+			if err != nil {
+				return "", fmt.Errorf("command failed: %w", err)
+			}
+
+			return "Command finished, TUI restored.", nil
+		},
+	})
+}