refactor: use modernc sqlite driver as default (#37562)

The mattn driver is still kept, can be enabled by
TAGS="sqlite_mattn sqlite_unlock_notify"

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Co-authored-by: TheFox0x7 <thefox0x7@gmail.com>

snap/snapcraft.yaml

@@ -75,7 +75,7 @@ parts:
       set -x
       sed -i 's/os.Getuid()/1/g' modules/setting/setting.go
       npm install -g pnpm
-      TAGS="bindata sqlite sqlite_unlock_notify pam cert" make build
+      TAGS="bindata pam cert" make build
       install -D gitea "${SNAPCRAFT_PART_INSTALL}/gitea"
       cp -r options "${SNAPCRAFT_PART_INSTALL}/"